AORTIC ANEURYSM ON HONEYMOON
My name is Deepak. I am 32 years old, married and we
have an 11 month old son. I got married to Kavita on
26 Jan 1998. We were honeymooning in the beautiful
foothills of Himalayas in India. It was 2nd Feb 1998
and we were in a hurry to reach back to the hotel room
from the long drive in the rain, as a friend was to
join us for dinner along with his wife and kids. We
reached almost in time as our friend too had just
reached. It was cold evening and we had left the room
heater on, and we entered the warm and cozy but a
some-what dehydrated room. We ordered soup and dinner
and suddenly I started feeling this strange
fullness/tightness in my chest.
I thought of going out in the
fresh air but with in moments the fullness increased
and I started having difficulty in breathing. My
friend got alarmed and asked me to sit down and relax,
but I told him it was all right and that it would pass.
Suddenly there was an excruciating pain in the middle
of my chest and a vague tearing/ ripping sensation as
in the noise created in ripping a paper. The breathing
became easier almost immediately after. However every
heart beat was painful. In my case there was no sign
of nausea, sweating, dizziness, fainting etc. The
hotel doctor gave me a pill to put under my tongue
and
referred me to local hospital, which diagnosed me a
case of gastroenteritis.
After a very uneasy night,
we
checked out of the hotel the first thing in the
morning and I drove for nearly 4 hours to reach
Chandigarh, my home. Without telling any one, I went
to a private radiologist, who noticed the dissection
and asked me to further get a C.T scan done. Despite
me asking him, he said there was no cause for worry
and it was all minor. By the time the C.T scan
report
came it was dark and we were asked to immediately
rush
to a hospital.
We reached the PGI, a top medical institute of the
region, who after doing echocardiography, declared
that the case was beyond them and they could do
nothing as they did not have the requisite
facilities.
According to them I was just to lie and await
death.
My parents decided to risk reaching me to Delhi,
which
was another 5 hours drive.
The moment I reached the
Apollo Hospital in Delhi, I was immediately operated
upon for dissection and my aortic valve too was
replaced. After a stay of 24 days I was discharged
but
was readmitted for draining out some fluid in the
lungs.
Life suddenly had taken an about turn. I was
dependent
for every thing. I had lost 14 kgs of weight and
felt
very weak.
I did not have a health insurance, hence all the
money
for expenditure on surgery and hospital stay was
arranged from our entire savings and that of my
parents and some borrowed from friends. The amount
spent was more than an average Indian makes in 10
years.
I returned to my business which I had started 3
years
before this problem arrived, after 5 months and that
too for only a few hours daily. We had defaulted on
our loan repayments. An employee had fraudulently
vanished with a large payment collected from our
customers. It was like starting all over again.
It
has
now taken 3 years to some how reduce liabilities.
Bank
loan too is almost paid. But with the recession I
think we would have to close soon.
The government in India operates under tremendous
population and poverty pressures. Health care and
support systems are virtually non existent. But for
some major hospitals, most of them find themselves
short on either a doctors panel or equipments. To
imagine that one of the premier medical center of
north India refused my case as they were not sure of
the expertise available
It's like starting afresh. I am well qualified and
have a post graduate diploma in marketing management
besides a 5 year work experience with the top
appliance company, a subsidiary of the U.S giant G.E
as an asst marketing manager. My wife is a
qualified
teacher with a master's degree. We are trying to
find
a suitable job for ourselves in the U.S, but nothing
has materialized so far. We shall certainly
appreciate
any help that could be extended to us to help begin
a
new life.
Any comments and suggestion would be welcome.
Deepak Sharma.
Discussion, comments, or questions: Deepak293@yahoo.com
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